Early adulthood is a situation where an individual has completed its growth and ready toaccept the position in society with other adults, Hurlock (1990). Erickson said that a personwho is classified in early adulthood are in a stage of a relationship warm, close andcommunicative with or do not involve sexual contact. When it fails in the form of intimacy he will have what is called isolation (feel excluded from others, lonely, blame yourself because it is different with others).
Meanwhile, according to our group, early adulthood is a period where a person is required to become an independent person and responsible either for himself or others. In early adulthood this person starts to have a desire to separate from parents, forming a familythrough marriage, began to think about work or career and think about life for the future. In addition, at this time a person is also required to be creative. However, early adulthood is also not immune from crises related to either partner, career, and life in the future.
Crisis related to a spouse.When someone decides to get married, then he must be ready to accept all theconsequences of his decision. Marriage is a bond that forms between the men and women in which there are elements of intimacy, passion, commitment. Marriage is also the beginning of family formation by the union of two individuals of the opposite sex andbirth of children. According to the theory put forward by Huvigurst (in Hurlock, 1990) which states that the task of development that was characteristic of early adulthood is to beginchoosing a spouse and start working. But there is a crisis when a person decides tochoose a life partner. Usually a person who is in early adulthood will feel a dilemma whenher husband asked her to become a housewife taking care of children and serving her husband every day. The crisis of this kind of crisis often occurs in a person at this earlyadulthood. In addition, sometimes a person also did not feel free and be disturbed whenhe had to live with in-laws. Disharmony between the wife's communication with the mother-in-law will make it feel too isolate.
Crisis-Related CareersOne task the development of a person who has entered early adulthood is entering theworld of work and career. In the course of this phase, one ditunutut to be able to determinethe right career path for him. An individual in living his life in the middle of this phase are expected to have a decent job and guarantee. Young adulthood is a time to reach peak performance. Someone at this time to work hard and compete with colleagues to achievethe feat. But too often a person feels to feel pressured by the demands of work in which they live. They are usually less faithful or loyal to the company are low and tend to look forother jobs that are considered more satisfactory and more able to ensure the continuationof his life. He sometimes feel dissatisfied with the work that he lived on the grounds of things. Among them are due to low salaries, no rhythm in working with employers, the skillsand the kind of work do not fit, and others. Therefore, before a person enters the world of work, he should be able to adapt to its environment. Then adjust the skill he possessed to employment that is available so that future crises do not happen that make her feelpressured and uncomfortable with the job.
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